This is what I notice when I meet a girl for the 1st time.

First and Foremost is the body.  I look at the posture – nobody wants Igor, how they dress – To me it’s a good glimpse of their Personality, legs, butt, and feet – if they can’t take of their feet…what else isn’t being taken care of?

What I’m really attracted to:

• Eyes – There isn’t much to say here, but I personally feel Asian women have most beautiful shape.
• Smile – Teeth don’t have to be perfect, but I don’t like yellow stained teeth and I don’t like the snaggle tooth.
• Hair – I like brushing my fingers through your hair.
• Hands – I love soft hands.  I’m also a big fan of woman who gets their nails done.  I’ve been spoiled in the past
• Personality – Once you get past cosmetics, you are left with personality.  If you’re still interested, continue reading below.  I get a little serious.

Personality: This is a big one for me.  My last “relationship” was a Joke.  She had the Cosmetic aspect, but her personality killed it.  But here is what I am looking for.

• Understanding – I can fall in love with a women is more understanding about who I am.  The more understanding and accepting you are of me, I will be more inclined to love and accept you for who you are.
• A good sense of Humor – I can be serious at time, but I love to kick back joke around with the person I am with.  Playful Girls rock!
• Directness – I’m not very good at reading minds.  Just tell me what’s on your mind and don’t play games.  It’s easier and it saves a lot of time for us to play later.
• Confidence – I like a woman who knows what she wants.  It’s very attractive to see a woman is comfortable with themselves.  It’s HOT!
• Dedications – Just be dedicated to something.  Don’t be that flaky girl that switches boyfriends at the first sight of drama.
• Flexibility – the more adaptable you are to a situation the more I will like you.  I am more attracted to woman who can get up and go at anytime without much notice.
• Caring – Important!  Of course I want someone who cares about their family, friends, and me. Who doesn’t?
• Intelligence – Important!  No brains, no gain.  That’s how I view.  You don’t have to be the smartest person alive, but I definitely want someone I carry a conversation with.
• Honesty – As long as you are honest, trustworthy, and sincere about your intentions…we can have a fun fulfilling relationship.

- Shai

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